Nigerian dancer and choreographer, Kafayat Oluwatoyin Shafau popularly known as Kaffy, has described people who look calm as more dangerous inside them.
She spoke about her former husband, Papi J. Ameh and what led to the crash of their marriage. She announced the formal divorce via her post on her official Instagram page. The divorce took place in January this year
Kaffy told a media personality, Chude Jideonwo in an interview that her former husband was cheating on her and sleeping with her best friends.
“If I had known I won’t have jumped into that fire. I thought he was just sleeping with strangers but I found out he was sleeping with my best friends, people I knew…I was thinking at the beginning that I had found someone to completely make me happy but that was selfish thinking. No human being should be your source of happiness.
“When you see him, you will think he can’t even hurt a fly because he is always calm, and he has now made me afraid of calm people cos hmm, inside he is. I held him in high regard until I had to ask him why he was treating me the way he was. I asked him, what do you have against me that is making you sleep around and with my best friends!”
Kaffy said that she found her peace by not sleeping with him after she found out he was cheating on her.
“I stopped sleeping with him because he was dishonest with me and it was when I stopped sleeping with him, that the greatest level of healing started.”
Source: Independent.
